Be Clear on What you Want
If you were to ask the average person in the street what they really wanted in their life they would probably not be able to tell you. Most people are drifting around aimlessly complaining about the things that they don’t have and how bad their life is. This sends the completely wrong signals to the Universe.
When you live a life of uncertainty and negativity the Universe will keep providing you with this. So if you are in this position you need to change right now. The reason that most people are not clear about what they want is because it takes effort to concentrate on this. It is a lot easier to laze around on the couch watching meaningless TV.
So you need to take some quiet time where you can look at all aspects of your life to determine what you want. Your health is an important area as are your finances and your relationships. So spend some time thinking about all of these things and write down what comes to mind.
Let’s take finances as an example. How much money do you want to make in the next 12 months? Don’t limit yourself here. Write down the exact amount and then reflect on this and imagine that you already have this money. How does that make you feel? If you feel excited about this then keep this as a goal.
Do you have the right person in your life right now? If not, think about your ideal partner in life. What do they look like? What kind of character do they have? What do they want in their life? Once you have come up with all of the traits that will make up your ideal partner imagine what it would be like having them in your life.
Keep thinking about different areas of your life and write down what you want and how you feel about it. After this look at the list you have created and decide which ones are the most important to you. It is important that you do not try to achieve too many goals at once.
What is really important here is “why” you want these things. Money is just bits of paper with numbers on them. What will having this money really mean to you? Will you use it to help others as well as yourself?
Once you have one or two goals that you really want to achieve then write them down in a journal or somewhere else where you will see them all of the time. Include the reasons for wanting to achieve the goals. Check them for realism and ensure that you always add a time (e.g. in 12 months from today).